Courageous, strong, inspirational…

Those are words that have been attributed to Elizabeth Edwards from the other democratic presidential candidates after hearing about Mrs. Edwards’s renewed battle with cancer.

And they're right.

Mrs. Edwards has an uphill battle. Instead of cowering and letting the recurrence of cancer take her over, she is -- and will --fight it. In today's news conference she said she will continue on with her schedule -- she will do next week what she did last week. This recurrence will not stop her. That is the positive attitude we should all take when we have setbacks--- medical or otherwise. Bad things happen to good people. When you have setback, take a second for self pity, but then roll up your sleeves and continue on with your life. Don't let that setback stop you.

As everyone now knows, Mrs. Edwards is one of (if not the) strongest allies and assets that John Edwards, presidential hopeful, has. Now, many people may questions whether she should be on the hectic and grueling presidential campaign -- and many more may questions whether Mr. Edwards should continue on with his campaign. After all, not only is he a father of two young children, but now he is a caregiver for his wife. Will he be able to manage the hectic schedule of a presidential campaign? How will he manage his new caregiving responsibilities along with his other responsibilities? Should he even try to pursue his campaign?

These are the challenges CareTALK will explore--- because of a setback in which you are suddenly thrust into a caregiver role, what do you do? Do you give up your goals, plans, and ambitions? Or do you maintain those responsibilities and take on the additional responsibilities of a caregiver? Can it be done? If so, how?

The answer is yes, it can be done.

Will it be easy? No. Take the article "The Other Juggle: Taking Care of Mom and Dad" in the Wall Street Journal, for example.

Should it be done? There is no right or wrong answer for that. That is dependent on each person and their situation. However, CareTALK will try to weave our way through the pros and cons to make some sense of this. CareTALK will provide you with the tools to help you --- whichever decision you may make.

One must also remember that children can also be caregivers. Cate Edwards, John's and Elizabeth's oldest daughter,-- though not a child-- will also be thrust into a caregiver's role -- a caregiver for her mother and for her younger siblings. Therefore, Mr. Edwards is not alone… and neither are you.

CareTALK and its support community will be here for you.