Love is a funny thing

When you think of love, what do you think of?

Many may say they think of hearts. Others may say they get a warm, fuzzy feeling. Yet most, if not all agree they also feel a sense of calm and happiness -- especially if they know that love is returned.

The article in the New York Times, "Modern Love: My Parents Couldn’t Outlive, or Outrun, Each Other," is a very poignant reminder that not all love is "warm and fuzzy." Yet the couple in the article were in love -- even after 30 years of being divorced and after remarriages to other people. As you read the article, it may not seem like your typical love affair -- but it is love. (The writer calls it "modern love.")

Yet, is it really modern love?

Every person has their own definition of love. But in its foundation is a deep sense of commitment to the person whom you love and a willingness to do everything in your power to make that other person happy -- without expecting something back in return.

Caregivers have this love for those they are caring for. If they didn't, they wouldn't be able to take on the responsibilities they must bear. Caregiving is not easy--- and it shouldn't be viewed as a duty. It is a commitment you make to make your loved one as happy as you can.